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Tips dating after divorce


When you’ve come to terms with the past and are ready to embrace life after divorce with exuberance and optimism, it’s time to get dating. Here are a few tips:

In my therapy practice I work with a lot of divorcing men who are trying to adjust to life after their divorce. One of the common themes that I encounter is that men want the companionship of someone else, but are scared of the process of dating. It often feels daunting, there is uncertainty about how/where to start, and then add to it how damaged he may feel from being divorced, many men avoid the process all together.

In her book,  Rebooting in Beverly Hills: A Wise and Wild Path for Navigating the Dating World , Miller not only recounts her struggles to forgive, forget and move on after the devastating failure of her third marriage (he cheated; she forgave; he kept cheating; she asked for a divorce). But she also shares how she re-started her love life , one lousy date at a time.


Tips dating after divorce

Tips dating after divorce